The 3 Facebook Settings Every User Should Check Now

1. Who Can See The Things You Share (Status Updates, Photo, Videos, etc.)

Probably the most critical of the “privacy” changes (yes, we mean those quotes sarcastically) was the change made to status updates. Although there’s now a button beneath the status update field that lets you select who can view any particular update, the new Facebook default for this setting is “Everyone.” And by everyone, they mean everyone.

If you accepted the new recommended settings then you voluntarily gave Facebook the right to share the information about the items you post with any user or application on the site. Depending on your search settings, you may have also given Facebook the right to share that information with search engines, too.

To change this setting back to something of a more private nature, do the following:

  1. From your Profile page, hover your mouse over the Settings menu at the top right and click “Privacy Settings” from the list that appears.
  2. Click “Profile Information” from the list of choices on the next page.
  3. Scroll down to the setting “Posts by Me.” This encompasses anything you post, including status updates, links, notes, photos, and videos.
  4. Change this setting using the drop-down box on the right. We recommend the “Only Friends” setting to ensure that only those people you’ve specifically added as a friend on the network can see the things you post.

2. Who Can See Your Personal Info

Facebook has a section of your profile called “personal info,” but it only includes your interests, activities, and favorites. Other arguably more personal information is not encompassed by the “personal info” setting on Facebook’s Privacy Settings page. That other information includes things like your birthday, your religious and political views, and your relationship status.

After last month’s privacy changes, Facebook set the new defaults for this other information to viewable by either “Everyone” (for family and relationships, aka relationship status) or to “Friends of Friends” (birthday, religious and political views). Depending on your own preferences, you can update each of these fields as you see fit. However, we would bet that many will want to set these to “Only Friends” as well. To do so:

  1. From your Profile page, hover your mouse over the Settings menu at the top right and click “Privacy Settings” from the list that appears.
  2. Click “Profile Information” from the list of choices on the next page.
  3. The third, fourth, and fifth item listed on this page are as follows: “birthday,” “religious and political views,” and “family and relationship.” Locking down birthday to “Only Friends” is wise here, especially considering information such as this is often used in identity theft.
  4. Depending on your own personal preferences, you may or may not feel comfortable sharing your relationship status and religious and political views with complete strangers. And keep in mind, any setting besides “Only Friends” is just that – a stranger. While “Friends of Friends” sounds innocuous enough, it refers to everyone your friends have added as friends, a large group containing hundreds if not thousands of people you don’t know. All it takes is one less-than-selective friend in your network to give an unsavory person access to this information.

3. What Google Can See – Keep Your Data Off the Search Engines

When you visit Facebook’s Search Settings page, a warning message pops up. Apparently, Facebook wants to clear the air about what info is being indexed by Google. The message reads:

There have been misleading rumors recently about Facebook indexing all your information on Google. This is not true. Facebook created public search listings in 2007 to enable people to search for your name and see a link to your Facebook profile. They will still only see a basic set of information.

While that may be true to a point, the second setting listed on this Search Settings page refers to exactly what you’re allowing Google to index. If the box next to “Allow” is checked, you’re giving search engines the ability to access and index any information you’ve marked as visible by “Everyone.” As you can see from the settings discussed above, if you had not made some changes to certain fields, you would be sharing quite a bit with the search engines…probably more information than you were comfortable with. To keep your data private and out of the search engines, do the following:

  1. From your Profile page, hover your mouse over the Settings menu at the top right and click “Privacy Settings” from the list that appears.
  2. Click “Search” from the list of choices on the next page.
  3. Click “Close” on the pop-up message that appears.
  4. On this page, uncheck the box labeled “Allow” next to the second setting “Public Search Results.” That keeps all your publicly shared information (items set to viewable by “Everyone”) out of the search engines. If you want to see what the end result looks like, click the “see preview” link in blue underneath this setting.

Take 5 Minutes to Protect Your Privacy

While these three settings are, in our opinion, the most critical, they’re by no means the only privacy settings worth a look. In a previous article (written prior to December’s changes, so now out-of-date), we also looked at things like who can find you via Facebook’s own search, application security, and more.

While you may think these sorts of items aren’t worth your time now, the next time you lose out on a job because the HR manager viewed your questionable Facebook photos or saw something inappropriate a friend posted on your wall, you may have second thoughts. But why wait until something bad happens before you address the issue?

Considering that Facebook itself is no longer looking out for you, it’s time to be proactive about things and look out for yourself instead. Taking a few minutes to run through all the available privacy settings and educating yourself on what they mean could mean the world of difference to you at some later point…That is, unless you agree with Facebook in thinking that the world is becoming more open and therefore you should too.

Note: Other resources on Facebook’s latest changes worth reading include MakeUseOf’s 8 Steps Toward Regaining your Privacy, 17 steps to protect your privacy from Inside Facebook, the ACLU’s article examining the changes, and DotRights.org’s comprehensive analysis of the new settings. If you’re unhappy enough to protest Facebook’s privacy update, you can sign ACLU’s petition. The FTC is also looking into the matter thanks to a complaint filed by a coalition of privacy groups, led by the Electronic Privacy Information Center. You can add your voice to the list of complaints here.

Good to do if you haven’t done this already, especially if you haven’t touched your settings since using their “transition tool.”

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A Fast Way to Bake Cookies: Use a Waffle IronFine Cooking | Apartment Therapy The Kitchn


this is going on my to-do list.

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Text Message Donations For Haiti May Be Delayed Up To 3 Months – The Consumerist


The Consumerist also has a related link that tells you how to donate money faster and more directly to the Haitian earthquake relief efforts as well. See article.

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journals from B.F. (Before Facebook)

I’ve been journaling online in one form or another on the web pretty much ever since I started to use the internet (at age 14?). Back in the day it was straight HTML pages, with p and /p tags, cheesy background wallpapers for your site and the requisite midi file to introduce the user to your personal web space. Then Blogger came around and made things so much simpler: you didn’t have to create each page individually: you’d just have to enter your thoughts into a box and poof! out pops a journal entry! WOW! It was revolutionary for the time! Go 1999! It’s a new millennium, baby!

Anyway, I came across my Blogger blogs the other day after messing around with creating a Google profile. Side note: I’d been adamantly resistant to setting up an “official” Google profile (much like not having a Facebook username), but after talking to one of my friends, I decided to look into it. And there they were: my forgotten Blogger pages, which I haven’t touched in at least five years and which were never made “public”, that Google remembered because they bought Blogger years ago. I came across all my random/ridiculous rants and those cry-faced posts from when I was angst-ridden and lovesick over this guy I was embroiled in a bad romance with. Overall the posts were cogent and filled with emotion and somewhat pathetic youthful attempts at logic, but most of all, I was prolific, writing about everything from music to food to politics to feminism. You couldn’t shut me up! And I thought I was bad now!

Most of all, I can’t believe I wrote some of this crap. I’m still kind of embarrassed about it. -_-

All of this mostly makes me really happy about not being a teenager/young adult in the time of Facebook. I mean, before, you could make a bad decision about something you write online, you could delete it a few days later and none would be the wiser. It wasn’t like people were checking your blog every day – few people were savvy enough to be doing that kind of publishing and even fewer were using RSS to subscribe to your content.  But on Facebook, you push a button and ALL YOUR FRIENDS and their friends see it instantly since everyone’s checking their pages all the time.

Before, you could struggle with growing up on your own time in your own space (relatively), but now everyone lives their social lives out online and if things go bad, EVERYONE knows RIGHT AWAY. It’s like Facebook enables everyone to live their lives in a voluntary fishbowl, like mini-celebrities posing and pouting for their eager paparazzi, their friends, and although it’s kind of fun at first to get all that attention, it can really suck to get burned.

I think that’s why I find all these Facebook privacy stories so fascinating. Here we are, presented with this new technology, but it shapes our social interactions and mores in all these new ways that people are still figuring out. It’s average people trying to establish new romantic relationships in real-life but negotiating how to develop it in virtual life, sibling rivalries that turn ugly in public and making awkward connections with people you’re not really sure you want to associate with online but need to in order to support your professional life, etc. Kind of ties in to the brand of awkward comedy so rampant now – the kind that centers around awkward people, stunted emotional growth and uncomfortable social situations: it’s relatable and popular because most young people today are adapting to a world where the old rules of social interaction don’t really apply anymore, and hell, you might as well laugh about it.

Conan O’Brien Makes Official Statement, Won’t Do 12:05am Tonight Show, Slams NBC On Air | /Film


Just catching up on the whole Conan O’Brien/Jay Leno late night drama. Slashfilm has a good summary of events and clips of commentary from Conan’s and Letterman’s respective shows. Some pretty funny stuff. =)

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Facebook Revenge – “My hook up list”


Brilliant and wrong in so many ways.

Oh man, I’m so glad I am not a teenager growing up in the time of Facebook!

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Findings – The Psychology Behind Putting Off What Can Be Enjoyed Now

For once, social scientists have discovered a flaw in the human psyche that will not be tedious to correct. You may not even need a support group. You could try on your own by starting with this simple New Year’s resolution: Have fun … now!

Viktor Koen
Read the rest on nytimes.com

Let’s see how well I do in following the advice from this column a few months from now…

happy new year!! it’s 2010!!

Another year gone, another new decade beginning. here’s to a great
year filled with lots of delicious food and memories!

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A thorough evisceration of The Phantom Menance in 7 parts



Watched this last night with a few friends. Makes a ton of great points, and is pretty hilariously done. NSFW. Slashfilm has the whole series on a single page for easy viewing.

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Proof That Anything Can Be Deep Fried | Top Cultured


Now this is really inspiration more than anything else. =) Time to do another Deep-Fry-day!

Above picture is of Deep Fried Oreos.

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“I bet you if anyone got into the beta it was Stalin!!” | Hitler Learns About STO Closed Beta | Youtube


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The Facebook Privacy Settings You’ve Lost Forever – Facebook – Gawker

More on the Facebook privacy rollbacks from the recent change to the TOS.

While covering Facebook’s systematic elimination of privacy, we’ve been deluged with questions from readers asking how to restore certain Facebook privacy protections. Sadly, many such settings appear to be lost forever. Here are the most glaring examples.

1. Hide group and page memberships

Facebook changed its formal Privacy Policyto say that “pages you are a fan of… and networks” are now totally public information (along with many other things). There’s apparently no setting to shield page and network data, which leads to terrible situation like this one, sent in as a reader plea:

All of a sudden my grandmother can see that I belong to the Queer Graduate Student Union and Open Relationships Networking Group. Please help. I can’t bring myself to de-friend my grandmother!

2. Block Facebook activity from appearing on your wall

There used to be a setting that allowed users to prevent Facebook activity from automatically showing up on their Facebook wall, thus blocking updates like “John commented on Jane’s picture,” “John is now friends with Bob,” “John is attending Uber Gay Circuit Party 2010,” etc. This setting is apparently gone, and you have to remove such notices one at a time.

Writes one tipster:

It is extremely annoying not to mention a complete tell of how often I use Facebook during work hours:)

3. Prevent strangers from friending you

It used to be you could keep non-friends from sending you a Facebook friend requests, although they could confirm. That’s not the most, well, social way to use a social network, but judging from our email, it was a frequently used and valued feature. Wrote one Gawker regular:

Before the changes I wasn’t searchable on FB and hence friended only those I wanted to friend, in essence, I would initiate the request. But… I am now getting friend requests from people I don’t know, or worse, from people I know but I don’t want to befriend on FB…

Facebook now makes you offer the “Add friend” option to all friends of friends — you can’t restrict any tighter than that, so strangers can still send you friend requests. Screenshot (click to enlarge):

4. Completely hide friends list

Your friends list, too, is considered public information. Though you can remove it from your profile, you can’t keep friends of friends from seeing it. They just have to pull up one of your friends’ friend list, click you name, and view your friends list.

Writes one reader: “Many of us are concerned, seeing as how there are thousands of people faced with the threat of stalkers.” Another, right on cue:

I have been dealing with a deranged, threatening stalker… There is no way of keeping your Friend list private… I have been obsessively reading about this topic [overall Facebook privacy]… To say I’m outraged is an understatement.

We thought Facebook might be improving this, but we continue to receive emails like these, and Facebooks written Privacy Policy still states that friends lists are now public information.

And more, we’re sure

We’d love to be wrong about any of these privacy rollbacks, so if you know of settings or workarounds we’ve overlooked, do email us at tips@gawker.com. Conversely, if we’ve left out a lost privacy option you feel strongly about, let us know about that, too.

Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg (pictured) originally said his social network’s privacy changes were intended simplify and enhance the privacy experience on the site. Judging from our inbox, it would seem he’s achieved neither.

 

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Sarah Walking Video! Palin fans interviewed from Columbus, Ohio book store – Kick! Making Politics Funny – A liberal dose of political comedy


Not to say that there aren’t Obama supporters who are as dumb as this, but it’s always alarming to see a collection of people who are as vehemently and willfully misinformed as the folks in this video.

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It’s A Frap! | Palahniuk & Chocolate


 

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Family Portraits of all 56 ethnic groups in China | ChinaHush


Sometimes it’s easy to forget how culturally diverse China is. Lovely set of portraits here.

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Tiger Woods crash cookie


Shortbread cookie from one of our vendors. It’s a still from the CG video a Taiwanese news station created illustrate their version of the night Tiger crashed his car. (see video in earlier post.)

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Oh those resourceful Taiwanese journalists: Taiwan Tiger Woods Video


If you don’t have video from the event, create it in CG!

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Frank talk with Lady Gaga -


Great interview with Lady Gaga by the New York Times. Love her!

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Facebook’s New Privacy Changes: The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly | Electronic Frontier Foundation


Hey kids! Be sure to read this article from the EFF if you’re considering keeping an iota of privacy when you use Facebook.

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Pen Spinning! Universal Pen Spinning Board 1st Collaboration Video | Youtube



back in jr high, i had a small obsession with pen spinning. there was a guy in my SAT summer school class who sat in front of me who had rather distractingly awesome pen spinning skillz, and i ended up spending about a week at home trying to do what he did. i eventually figured out the spin-pen-over-thumb trick, but I never developed the dexterity to do it in reverse the way he did.

needless to say, I can’t even begin to do the things described in this video, but a girl can dream, right?

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