{"id":80,"date":"2001-05-16T10:00:04","date_gmt":"2001-05-16T17:00:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/?p=80"},"modified":"2001-05-16T10:00:04","modified_gmt":"2001-05-16T17:00:04","slug":"so-what-is-love-whats","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2001\/05\/so-what-is-love-whats\/","title":{"rendered":"so what is love? what&#8217;s"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>so what is love? what&#8217;s the way to love someone? do you love them in a way that&#8217;s easiest for you, and hope they get it? do you have to change the way you love them so that they understand?<\/p>\n<p>the way I figure&#8230; it&#8217;s not about how it&#8217;s done, but that it is done. it&#8217;s the sentiment that&#8217;s important&#8230; because so much can come into a relationship to beat at it and mess it up, but if two people fundamentally &#8220;get&#8221; each other, and care about each other, and genuinely want the best for each other, that&#8217;s what should be what matters, and that&#8217;s what&#8217;s eventually going to last through time, through changing circumstances, changing situations. it&#8217;s so shaky to base a friendship just on the doing stuff together, on a phone call, on tokens of sentiment instead of the real thing. after a certain point, you come to rely on the tokens, instead of seeing the love for what it really is: love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>so what is love? what&#8217;s the way to love someone? do you love them in a way that&#8217;s easiest for you, and hope they get it? do you have to change the way you love them so that they understand? the way I figure&#8230; it&#8217;s not about how it&#8217;s done, but that it is done. &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2001\/05\/so-what-is-love-whats\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;so what is love? what&#8217;s&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-80","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=80"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/80\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=80"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=80"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=80"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}