{"id":234,"date":"2002-02-04T05:17:46","date_gmt":"2002-02-04T12:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/?p=234"},"modified":"2009-08-08T17:06:27","modified_gmt":"2009-08-09T00:06:27","slug":"guy-issues","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2002\/02\/guy-issues\/","title":{"rendered":"guy issues."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>if you&#8217;d asked me a month ago how I felt about a few certain people, you&#8217;d get a few cut and dried responses.<br \/>\non person A: I&#8217;m still hung up on him. he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship, but I still want something, maybe.<br \/>\non person B: He&#8217;s my friend. We connect pretty well, but I think he has some stuff he needs to work out.<br \/>\non person C: My gosh, he&#8217;s probably my best friend here. This would actually be a good relationship, but i&#8217;m just not attracted to him in that way&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>but somehow, everything&#8217;s different now.<br \/>\non person A: I&#8217;d like to be just friends with him. I&#8217;m not attracted to him in the way I was before. I sort of realize now that it was a phase in some ways, and that i&#8217;ve outgrown my blind-sighted admiration of this person.<br \/>\non person B: Ahck! maybe things could work&#8230;.:)<br \/>\non person C: Still really comfortable, but things are starting to feel kind of couple-y. this is worrisome because it shouldn&#8217;t go that way unless it&#8217;s intended&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&gt;_<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>if you&#8217;d asked me a month ago how I felt about a few certain people, you&#8217;d get a few cut and dried responses. on person A: I&#8217;m still hung up on him. he doesn&#8217;t want a relationship, but I still want something, maybe. on person B: He&#8217;s my friend. We connect pretty well, but I &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2002\/02\/guy-issues\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;guy issues.&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[16],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-234","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-thisnthat"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=234"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1173,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/234\/revisions\/1173"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=234"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=234"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=234"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}