{"id":1454,"date":"2009-12-17T22:47:00","date_gmt":"2009-12-18T06:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2009\/12\/the-facebook-privacy-settings-youve-lost-forever-facebook-gawker\/"},"modified":"2009-12-17T22:47:00","modified_gmt":"2009-12-18T06:47:00","slug":"the-facebook-privacy-settings-youve-lost-forever-facebook-gawker","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2009\/12\/the-facebook-privacy-settings-youve-lost-forever-facebook-gawker\/","title":{"rendered":"The Facebook Privacy Settings You&#8217;ve Lost Forever &#8211; Facebook &#8211; Gawker"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>More on the Facebook privacy rollbacks from the recent change to the TOS.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Georgia, Times, serif; color: #303030;\"><span style=\"line-height: 20px;\">  <\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">While&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/gawker.com\/tag\/pst\/facebook-privacy-changes-2009\/\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\" class=\"extlink\">covering Facebook&#8217;s systematic elimination of privacy<\/a>, we&#8217;ve been deluged with questions from readers asking how to restore certain Facebook privacy protections. Sadly, many such settings appear to be lost forever. Here are the most glaring examples.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">1.&nbsp;<strong style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\">Hide group and page memberships<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Facebook&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/gawker.com\/5423421\/facebook-wants-to-steal-your-friends\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\" class=\"extlink\">changed its formal Privacy Policy<\/a>to say that &#8220;pages you are a fan of&#8230; and networks&#8221; are now totally public information (along with many other things). There&#8217;s apparently no setting to shield page and network data, which leads to terrible situation like this one, sent in as a reader plea:<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0pt; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 30px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.6em; background-image: ; color: #454545; background-position: 0% 0%;\">\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">All of a sudden my grandmother can see that I belong to the Queer Graduate Student Union and Open Relationships Networking Group. Please help. I can&#8217;t bring myself to de-friend my grandmother!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">2.&nbsp;<strong style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\">Block Facebook activity from appearing on your wall<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">There used to be a setting that allowed users to prevent Facebook activity from automatically showing up on their Facebook wall, thus blocking updates like &#8220;John commented on Jane&#8217;s picture,&#8221; &#8220;John is now friends with Bob,&#8221; &#8220;John is attending Uber Gay Circuit Party 2010,&#8221; etc. This setting is apparently gone, and you have to remove such notices one at a time.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Writes one tipster:<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0pt; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 30px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.6em; background-image: ; color: #454545; background-position: 0% 0%;\">\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">It is extremely annoying not to mention a complete tell of how often I use Facebook during work hours:)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">3.&nbsp;<strong style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\">Prevent strangers from friending you<br \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">It used to be you could keep non-friends from sending you a Facebook friend requests, although they could confirm. That&#8217;s not the most, well, social way to use a social network, but judging from our email, it was a frequently used and valued feature. Wrote one Gawker regular:<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0pt; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 30px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.6em; background-image: ; color: #454545; background-position: 0% 0%;\">\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Before the changes I wasn&#8217;t searchable on FB and hence friended only those I wanted to friend, in essence, I would initiate the request. But&#8230; I am now getting friend requests from people I don&#8217;t know, or worse, from people I know but I don&#8217;t want to befriend on FB&#8230;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Facebook now makes you offer the &#8220;Add friend&#8221; option to all friends of friends &mdash; you can&#8217;t restrict any tighter than that, so strangers can still send you friend requests. Screenshot (click to enlarge):<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/cache.gawker.com\/assets\/images\/7\/2009\/12\/firefoxscreensnapz1-thumb_13.jpg\" rel=\"lytebox\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\"  target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"left image500\" src=\"http:\/\/cache.gawker.com\/assets\/images\/7\/2009\/12\/500x_firefoxscreensnapz1-thumb_13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" style=\"\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\">4. Completely hide friends list<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Your friends list, too, is considered public information. Though you can remove it from your profile, you can&#8217;t keep friends of friends from seeing it. They just have to pull up one of your friends&#8217; friend list, click you name, and view your friends list.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Writes one reader: &#8220;Many of us are concerned, seeing as how there are thousands of people faced with the threat of stalkers.&#8221; Another, right on cue:<\/p>\n<blockquote style=\"margin-top: 15px; margin-right: 0pt; margin-bottom: 15px; margin-left: 0pt; padding-top: 0px; padding-right: 0px; padding-bottom: 0px; padding-left: 30px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 1.6em; background-image: ; color: #454545; background-position: 0% 0%;\">\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 12px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">I have been dealing with a deranged, threatening stalker&#8230; There is no way of keeping your Friend list private&#8230; I have been obsessively reading about this topic [overall Facebook privacy]&#8230; To say I&#8217;m outraged is an understatement.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">We thought Facebook&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/gawker.com\/5427077\/the-valleywag-guide-to-restoring-your-privacy-on-facebook\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\" class=\"extlink\">might be improving this<\/a>, but we continue to receive emails like these, and Facebooks written Privacy Policy still&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/gawker.com\/5423421\/facebook-wants-to-steal-your-friends\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\" class=\"extlink\">states<\/a>&nbsp;that friends lists are now public information.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\"><strong style=\"font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\">And more, we&#8217;re sure<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">We&#8217;d love to be wrong about any of these privacy rollbacks, so if you know of settings or workarounds we&#8217;ve overlooked, do email us at&nbsp;<a href=\"mailto:tips@gawker.com\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\">tips@gawker.com<\/a>. Conversely, if we&#8217;ve left out a lost privacy option you feel strongly about, let us know about that, too.<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin-top: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-bottom: 1.5em; margin-left: 0px; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; padding: 0px;\">Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg (pictured)&nbsp;<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.facebook.com\/blog.php?post=190423927130\" style=\"border-top-width: 0px; border-right-width: 0px; border-bottom-width: 1px; border-left-width: 0px; border-color: initial; font-size: 13px; font-family: inherit; vertical-align: baseline; color: #660000; text-decoration: none; border-bottom-style: dotted; border-bottom-color: #ffffff; padding: 0px; margin: 0px;\" class=\"extlink\">originally said<\/a>&nbsp;his social network&#8217;s privacy changes were intended simplify and enhance the privacy experience on the site. Judging from our inbox, it would seem he&#8217;s achieved neither.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div class=\"posterous_quote_citation\">via <a href=\"http:\/\/gawker.com\/5428155\/the-facebook-privacy-settings-youve-lost-forever?skyline=true&amp;s=x\" class=\"extlink\">gawker.com<\/a><\/div>\n<p style=\"font-size: 10px;\">  <a href=\"http:\/\/posterous.com\" class=\"extlink\">Posted via web<\/a>   from <a href=\"http:\/\/pearl.posterous.com\/the-facebook-privacy-settings-youve-lost-fore\" class=\"extlink\">pearl&#8217;s posterous<\/a>  <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>More on the Facebook privacy rollbacks from the recent change to the TOS. While&nbsp;covering Facebook&#8217;s systematic elimination of privacy, we&#8217;ve been deluged with questions from readers asking how to restore certain Facebook privacy protections. Sadly, many such settings appear to be lost forever. Here are the most glaring examples. 1.&nbsp;Hide group and page memberships Facebook&nbsp;changed &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/2009\/12\/the-facebook-privacy-settings-youve-lost-forever-facebook-gawker\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Facebook Privacy Settings You&#8217;ve Lost Forever &#8211; Facebook &#8211; Gawker&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-links"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1454","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1454"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1454\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1454"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1454"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.pearlescent.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1454"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}